Sometimes i think tat we have too high expectations of our parents.. We expect them to understand our feelings but how many times do we understand their feelings? They are also human, they were also once like us? Is it true tat because they treated their parents like tat, tats why now they are being treated the same?

Parents are human, they make mistakes too.. Sometime when i look at my mum now, being jobless, i feel her sadness, helplessness, and the thing is not helping is my empress dowager at home.. She has been screaming her head off at the maid, GOD pls tone her down, but not using a stroke or any illnesses pls, make her milder.. She has been asking my mum too abt job.. u know its irritating enough to be jobless, and when somebody keep on bugging u to look for her job, the feeling is terrible, horrible and vegetable.. Just leads one into depression.. Poor mummy, GOD, pls help my mum to find a job soon..

But then again.. the empress dowager does has her sweet side too, for example, if my nose get blocked in the middle of the night, she will put tiger balm on my nose, and although i dun like the feeling of having tiger balm on my nose.. the gesture alone is touching.. SHE loves, but loves in a different way.. Well, nobody is perfect, when u have yr plus point, u will have yr minus point too.. so just have to look at the plus point of the person ba..

Sometimes i tell my elderly to treat their child better, esp when they dun see them often cos when u dun see someone often the least u wan to hear from them is scolding.. So i tell my elderly dun scold their children, it will only widen the gap between themselves and the children. sometimes being an elderly is sad too.. imagine yrself once soooo active and ablebodied, dun need to take much medication, and suddenly b4 u know it u are old and stricken with so many diseases, some of them just cant cope and accept the fact that's why suddenly they become depressed, and some react to depression in different ways like being sad, suicidal or some just want to make their opinions be heard and turn aggressive.. well i just hope tat things get better everywhere... and everybody will be happy in tat way the world will be a happier place to live in.. Heeeheee...